Thursday, May 27, 2004
12:40 PM

... What type of KISS have you experienced??? ...

What type of KISS have you experienced???

Angel Kiss
This is a sweet, comforting kiss.
Gently and ever so lightly kiss your partner either on the eye lid or right next to the eyes.

Cheek Kiss
A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.

Butterfly Kiss
With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

Freeze Kiss
Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.

Eskimo Kiss
With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.

Earlobe Kiss
Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors

French Kiss
The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are
thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues

Forehead Kiss
The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone.
Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.

Foot Kiss
An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.

Hickey Kiss
The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.

Hand Kiss
Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand.
Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady

Hot/Cold Kiss
Get a cold drink and put some in your mouth. Have your partner gets a hot drink and puts some in their mouth. You then French kiss leaving a sensational feeling.

Letter Kiss
Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX.

Mistletoe Kiss
Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe.
This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.

Neck Kiss
Come up behind the person you want to kiss. Lightly lick the back of their neck, then kiss the back of their neck a few times.

Neck Nibble Kiss
Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.

Nip Kiss
This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.

Shoulder Kiss
Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss

Sip Kiss
Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner.
It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.

Stomach Kiss
Gently kiss and nibble on your partners stomach, and sometimes it leads to other things..

Talking Kiss
Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth.
If caught in the act, simply say, "I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering into her mouth."

Tiger Kiss
Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do.
Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too.
This will surely surprise them.

Quickie Kiss
When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather than the lips

Upside Down Kiss
You stand behind your partner (who is seated or laying down) and have them tilt their head back.
Then kiss them so that you nibble their lower lip and they nibble yours.
This is fun and feels good because you can feel them breathing on your neck as you kiss.

Underwater Kiss
Find your partner under water. Embrace and kiss. It's a unique and wonderful feeling. By the time you run out of air, you'll be back at the top. Continuing the kiss is optional.

Underwater Deep End Kiss
Dive to the bottom of the deep end of a pool. Find your partner under water and begin kissing. Continue as you rise to the top.

Vacuum Kiss
While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth.
This is a playful kiss.

Virtual Kiss
For Internet lovers. Send an e-card or a kiss via email with this symbol: :-*

The Wave Kiss
While kissing your partner, slowly roll your tongue like a wave, up and down.
It can be a little sloppy, but it's a unique feeling and always gets a little laugh when it's done _______________________________________

Friday, May 21, 2004
6:22 PM

... Gaydar ...

Gaydar


You and your supposedly straight friend are showering at the gym, his wet, naked body just a few feet from yours, suds coursing down his crotch. And he gives you a look -- that look. Or maybe he doesn't. Is he really straight? Or one of us? Who's queer? Can we tell by looking? Is there really some special way we recognize each other, that sixth sense often called "gaydar"?

Many gay men think they can tell, often even before words are spoken, who's "family." It may not be infallible, they say, but it seems to work. It's why, when show biz personalities come out, gay men often shake their heads and wonder, "Can there be anyone who didn't already know that so-and-so likes to suck dick?"

If, as many of us believe, we know we're queer at a relatively early age, then we can learn, even unconsciously, to "be gay" from the examples around us. Vocal inflections, the way we walk, facial expressions -- these are ways we "act queer," and can be read by others tuned in to the code. In part a survival mechanism, mutual recognition in a hostile world, it's also a sometimes-unconscious mating dance. Walk down the street and look into another man's eyes; if he's straight, odds are he won't hold the glance, interpreting a meaningful stare as invasion of privacy or even an aggressive act. Most gay men, though, will look back, knowing the glance means, "Hmm, you're kind of interesting. Wanna screw?" Even if attraction's absent, the gaze can express shared desires. And hey, that quick glance down to the basket is a dead giveaway.

What's thought of as "gay affectations" usually translate into "effeminacy." There's That Tone of Voice, speech patterns many of us share. True, there are perfectly faggy-sounding 100 percent het men, but on the whole, if it talks like a queer, it's a queer.

Other signifiers, superficial ones, are trickier. From 501s to back-pocket bandannas, motorcycle jackets, and dangling keys, gay men have appropriated bits of straight -- often butch -- style for our own ends. Lately straights have more than returned the favor; hard to believe, but not so long ago het men simply didn't wear earrings or pierce their nipples. But the increasing homogenization of style makes "dressing gay," especially among younger guys, harder to read now. It's easier to come out, too, so non-stereotypical gay men who might have passed in the past are now decloseting themselves.

The college student who wonders, "Is my best friend gay?" may just have to ask him. "Gay" is a self-defined identity, and there are men who don't think of themselves as "gay" or "queer" but do have sex with other men. This is hardly new -- jargonists call it "situational homosexuality," while Mom thinks of it as "just a phase." But the increasing fluidity of boundaries makes it more possible that even if that best friend thinks of himself as "straight," you may be able to get into his pants. Still, chasing after the wrong straight man can have dire consequences, and should be approached with caution.

Beyond simple gaydar, there's also the question of specialized signs. This sort of thing has to do with sexual tastes, not just sexual orientation. The hankie code, a system of signaling with the position and color of a back-pocket bandanna, is the best-known way of showing the world you're a fisting top or give enthusiastic blowjobs. The guy with multiple tattoos and a tongue piercing should be kinkier than that preppy guy in Dockers over there. (To our delight, or frustration, many of us have found out this isn't always the case.)

The clearest signifiers are S/M related: handcuffs dangling from a belt loop are pretty unambiguous. Even here, though, the fashionability of kink-related style can jam the gaydar: just why is that punky-looking guy wearing a studded dog collar around his neck? Well, there's a way to find out ...

by Simon Sheppard _______________________________________

Thursday, May 20, 2004
9:03 AM

... Bottom Classification ...

Bottom classification


This is funny
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Bottoms are getting to be dime a dozen, as most tops
would succumb to being bottom rather than totally lose
the night (believe me, two bottoms can have more fun
than four exclusive tops put together)--it is in this
predicament that a bottom classification is released.
If you are a bottom or have ever been bottomed to
please use the necessary classification to identify
your classification


TOLERANT BOTTOM: Top/Versatiles who really do not
enjoy being bottomed but would give way if a fellow
top-partner is way too hot to lose. Rating: 1-2
fingers

RECEPTIVE BOTTOM: Top/versa, bottom guys who enjoy
being bottomed but will basically just lie there and
enjoy the act. typically enjoys the slow, easy fuck
strokes Rating: 1-3 fingers

EXPERT CLASS LEVEL 1: Bottom/versa, bottom guys who
enjoy the act and can perform muscle control.
typically enjoys a one-on-one encounter. Rating 1-4
fingers

EXPERT CLASS LEVEL 2: Bottom/versa, bottom guys who
enjoy the act and can perform muscle control. Open to
experimentation (3somes/orgies/gangbangs) and can
handle double penetration. Rating: 1-5 fingers

EXPERT CLASS LEVEL 3: Bottom guys who are very open to
experimentation and can handle up to fisting.

So which class do you belong to? _______________________________________

Wednesday, May 19, 2004
7:27 PM

... bb ...

i really want 2nyt 2 last 4ever,
i really wanna be wid u!

to my bb, im happy weve found each other.
ive long waited for this moment...
and now, a realization of our dreams.
y do we have to wait for so long?


ur so wonderful.
i love u.
_______________________________________

Tuesday, May 18, 2004
5:32 PM

... love etc. ...

To Those Who THINK THEY'RE IN LOVE....
» Do not believe in love at first sight, for
love develops and grows, when it fully blooms.
That's when it’s sweeter and worth keeping. It's
not something you just "think" but it's
something you "believe and fight for."

To Those Who Are MAHILIG SA GWAPO/MAGANDA...
» Love doesn't always comes with ribbons and
beautiful colors. Sometimes the best gift you
had was placed on a small box wrapped with old
newspaper strips. And remember the last time you
ate on an exclusive restaurant? The dish was so
beautifully prepared but the FOOD!!!! Well I
won't let you remember the bad after taste, you
know what I mean.

To Those Who Are SOMEONE ELSE'S LOVED ONE....
» Love comes at the wrong place and at the wrong
time but when it comes, something so wrong feels
so RIGHT. It's up to you to decide, if you wish
to end it but I hope you'll never regret the
consequences that comes along with it.

To Those Who Are CLUELESS....
» Love comes in all shades and forms, don't try
to look for someone who you think is best for
you but instead try to look around for the
one you are looking for maybe he/she is just
right next to you.

To Those Who Are DESPERATE....
» Love should not be taken for granted, don't
settle for someone you don't love but instead
wait for the one that God has blessed for you.

To Those Who Are MANHID...
» You will feel that love is knocking at your
door. Once you hear it, do not hesitate to open
the door, for a really good surprise maybe
waiting for you. But if you just ignore it, you
will never know who was there waiting for you.

To Those Who Are FOND OF 1 NIGHT STANDS...
» Try to save that special part of you for "That
Person." Do not give it to someone that you
don't think deserves it. Remember, a few moments
of happiness could lead to a lifetime of
regrets.

To Those Who Are MALANDI...
» Love is not something you play with, it's
something that you treasure. It is not something
you count; it is only intended for one person.
You will never know the true meaning of love if
you're just playing around. For the people who
you are with only wants to play. Once the fun
stops, it ends.

To Those Who Are MAL!BOG...
» Love is not always about how good the sex is
or how yummy the person is. It's about how you
explore one another and how you feel the
gentleness and intimacy of you and your partner.
It's not about ecstacy but it’s about the
eternal bliss you feel. It’s not always about
the size but it's about the depth.


*** THE BEST PROOF OF LOVE IS.... TRUST. Ü _______________________________________

Thursday, May 06, 2004
3:22 PM

... sex... ...

sex...

Remember, if you smoke after sex you're doing it too fast. ~Woody Allen

Flies spread disease - keep yours zipped. ~Author Unknown

The best contraceptive is the word no - repeated frequently. ~Margaret Smith

Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

Men get laid, but women get screwed. ~Quentin Crisp

It is bad enough that people are dying of AIDS, but no one should die of ignorance. ~Elizabeth Taylor

When a guy goes to a hooker, he's not paying her for sex, he's paying her to leave. ~Author Unknown

Sex. In America an obsession. In other parts of the world a fact. ~Marlene Dietrich

When a man talks dirty to a woman, it's sexual harassment. When a woman talks dirty to a man, it's $3.95 a minute. ~Author Unknown

Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things: One is that God loves you and you're going to burn in hell. The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love. ~Butch Hancock

To hear many religious people talk, one would think God created the torso, head, legs and arms, but the devil slapped on the genitals. ~Don Schrader

There are three possible parts to a date, of which at least two must be offered: entertainment, food, and affection. It is customary to begin a series of dates with a great deal of entertainment, a moderate amount of food, and the merest suggestion of affection. As the amount of affection increases, the entertainment can be reduced proportionately. When the affection is the entertainment, we no longer call it dating. Under no circumstances can the food be omitted. ~Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behaviour

No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens. ~Abraham Lincoln

My reaction to porn films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first 20 minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live. ~Erica Jong, Playboy Magazine, September 1975

What is commonly called love, namely the desire of satisfying a voracious appetite with a certain quantity of delicate white human flesh. ~Henry Fielding

Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions. ~Woody Allen

There is nothing wrong with going to bed with someone of your own sex. People should be very free with sex, they should draw the line at goats. ~Elton John

There's nothing better than good sex. But bad sex? A peanut butter and jelly sandwich is better than bad sex. ~Billy Joel

The good thing about masturbation is that you don't have to get dressed up for it. ~Truman Capote

If you use the electric vibrator near water, you will come and go at the same time. ~Louise Sammons

Men wake up aroused in the morning. We can't help it. We just wake up and we want you. And the women are thinking, "How can he want me the way I look in the morning?" It's because we can't see you. We have no blood anywhere near our optic nerve. ~Andy Rooney

Whoever called it necking was a poor judge of anatomy. ~Groucho Marx

Sex is emotion in motion. ~Mae West

Why should we take advice on sex from the pope? If he knows anything about it, he shouldn't! ~George Bernard Shaw

Sex without love is an empty experience, but as empty experiences go it's one of the best. ~Woody Allen

Sex between a man and a woman can be absolutely wonderful - provided you get between the right man and the right woman. ~Woody Allen

Masturbation: the primary sexual activity of mankind. In the nineteenth century it was a disease; in the twentieth, it's a cure. ~Thomas Szasz

We have reason to believe that man first walked upright to free his hands for masturbation. ~Lily Tomlin

The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs less. ~Brendan Francis, Playboy, 1985

I know nothing about sex, because I was always married. ~Zsa Zsa Gabor

The hypothalamus is one of the most important parts of the brain, involved in many kinds of motivation, among other functions. The hypothalamus controls the "Four F's": fighting, fleeing, feeding, and mating. ~Unknown psychology professor in neuropsychology course

Sex at age ninety is like trying to shoot pool with a rope. ~George Burns

It is not sex that gives the pleasure, but the lover. ~Marge Piercy

Love is a matter of chemistry, but sex is a matter of physics. ~Author Unknown

Sex: the thing that takes up the least amount of time and causes the most amount of trouble. ~John Barrymore

The only thing wrong with being an atheist is that there's nobody to talk to during an orgasm. ~Author Unknown

Love ain't nothing but sex misspelled. ~Harlan Ellison

Pornography is supposed to arouse sexual desires. If pornography is a crime, when will they arrest makers of perfume? ~Richard Fleischer

Instruction in sex is as important as instruction in food; yet not only are our adolescents not taught the physiology of sex, but never warned that the strongest sexual attraction may exist between persons so incompatible in tastes and capacities that they could not endure living together for a week much less a lifetime. ~George Bernard Shaw, Everybody's Political What's What, 1944

The best contraceptive is a glass of cold water: not before or after, but instead. ~Author Unknown

Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand. ~Author Unknown

Isn't it interesting how the sounds are the same for an awful nightmare and great sex? ~From the television show The Golden Girls

Vanity, revenge, loneliness, boredom, all apply: lust is one of the least of the reasons for promiscuity. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966

Don't worry, it only seems kinky the first time. ~Author Unknown

When a man goes on a date he wonders if he is going to get lucky. A woman already knows. ~Frederike Ryder

Do infants enjoy infancy as much as adults enjoy adultery? ~Author Unknown

An erection is like the Theory of Relativity - the more you think about it, the harder it gets. ~Author Unknown

The difference between light and hard is that you can sleep with a light on. ~Author Unknown

Kinky is using a feather. Perverted is using the whole chicken. ~Author Unknown

Tell him I've been too fucking busy - or vice versa. ~Dorothy Parker

How lucky we are that we can reach our genitals instead of that spot on our back that itches. ~Flash Rosenberg

The difference between pornography and erotica is lighting. ~Gloria Leonard

When authorities warn you of the sinfulness of sex, there is an important lesson to be learned. Do not have sex with the authorities. ~Matt Groening

There are a number of mechanical devices which increase sexual arousal, particularly in women. Chief among these is the Mercedes-Benz 380SL convertible. ~P.J. O'Rourke

I regret to say that we of the FBI are powerless to act in cases of oral-genital intimacy, unless it has in some way obstructed interstate commerce. ~J. Edgar Hoover, attributed

It doesn't matter what you do in the bedroom as long as you don't do it in the street and frighten the horses. ~Mrs. Patrick Campbell

Never let the little head do the thinking for the big head. ~Author unknown, advice to teenage boys, quoted in Friendly Advice compiled by Jon Winokur

Now, if groups like Moral Majority have their way, there won't be any sex education at school, and our kids will be the dumbest in the world when it comes to sex.... But our parents are sexually retarded too.... Fear and primitive morals are creating a sexual pressure-cooker in this country and soon the top will blow.... Only in the U.S. do we find children drawing a picture of a baby coming from the clouds or from under a cabbage leaf. ~Dr. Floyd Martinson _______________________________________

10:41 AM

... puerto galera: talk about fun, excitement, adventure, and sumthing else... ...

puerto galera: talk about fun, excitement, adventure, and sumthing else...
may 1-2 2004
by jayd

last weekend, i went back to puerto galera. this time around, with some very close friends.
froi, the ever loud and cheerful pal.
jp, poised palagi at pamatay ang lakad.
chris, ang pahinhing effect at ang vice president.
and miko, the silent but super sweet baby faced miko.

ayan, we left buendia at around 4am na. kakaantok sa bus. we arrived at batangas pier ng 630am. sobrang nagmamadali kmi at naharang pa kami ng mga nagtitinda. hahabol sana kmi sa mga boat na 7 or 730am kya lang puno na lahat. the earliest we cud get was 830 na! so we had to wait. damn, it was so hot and dami ng tao. dami ring cute, xempre. sinakyan namin mb gorgonilla. kala nga namin malaki yun pala maliit lang. hahaha! maalon that tym kaya kabang kaba kami. tpos muntik pa kming bumangga sa isang vessel. hay...

dumating kmi sa white beach ng mga bandang 930am. Bili kmi agad ng tickets pabalik dahil bka maubusan kmi. After that, we started calling our contacts there to ask kung merong available na mga rooms. At wala ng available na mga rooms. Kahit mga houses na malapit sa beach, fully booked! Pati hotels. Grabe. Dami kcng tao.naglakad lakad kmi at nagtanong tanong. Merong bakante pero super layo na, malapit na sa hiway. Tlgang naghanap kmi hanggang sa mga kaliblibang lugar. At nkhanap kni ng isang kubo. Ayan, parang immersion program ito. Kakaiba dahil kubo tlga ito. Pero ok na rin dahil may cable, ref, at may tindahan kaya ala problema sa food. Hehehe. At mbabait yung mga nakatira. Dun kami nagstay. 2 kwarto inupahan namin.

Pagkatapos magayos ng gamit, naghanap kmi ng makakainan, then after that, naglakad lakad muna kmi. Ang dami ngang cute. At daming common friends na ndun din. Pati mga instructor ko sa gym at sum friends from church, ndun din. Mainit na mciado kaya balik kmi sa kubo para magpahinga muna.

At around 4pm, beach na kmi. Cyempre, super lagay ng sunblock. Swim to the max na ito. Then nagkayayaan na pumunta sa mini beach, sa likod ng white beach. Xempre kelangan dumaan sa batcave para makapunta doon. Ayun, adventure talaga! Natuwa naman cla sa nkita nila. Mganda tlga dun sa mini beach. Mas tahimik, mas mganda. At may diving site. After nun e shopping naman ang inatupag namin.

Dinner time na, puno ang mga resto, at kung di naman e, wala ng menu. Pero nkahanap din kmi. Sarap ng food at ng mga shake. Balik kmi sa kubo after. Watch ng tv at rest. Tpos umulan, tpos nagbrownout. Ang saya d ba. Nakatulog na lang kmi. Tpos nung bandang mga 12, nagkayayaan pumunta sa bar. Go kmi.

Ang saya dahil parang nsa Bed din kmi dahil sa music. At ang wild ng mga tao. Dami ko nainom at nung mejo nagwawala na ako, niyaya na ako ni mico umalis. Then punta kami sa beach, lakad lakad. Hanggang umabot kmi sa may batcave. Dun muna kmi nagstay. Bakit kaya?

Inumaga na kmi dun at dumiretso na rin sa kubo para matulog. 6am na yun. Then nagising kmi ng mga 1030am. Nagkayayaan pumunta sa batuhan, sa kabilang side naman yun. Hay naku, pasaway dahil napagod lang kmi. Pero in fairness, mganda magkodakan dun. Tapos lakad na naman kami dun sa batcave, sobrang saya ng kwentuhan namin at panlalait dun sa mga dumadaan. Dun namin napagkwentuhan yung mb hello super rainbow at kung anik anik pa. Then lunch ulit dun sa resto na kinainan namin. As usual, dami cute. Hehe. At wag ka, dahil suot nga pala namin ang mg sarong namin. Talagang super parade of sarong ito!

Pagtapos nun, nagkayayaan ulit, for the last time, punta sa mini beach. Ayun, go kami. Sobrang saya. Sa sobrang saya, nakalimutan namin ang oras. Nung pabalik na kmi e nakita namin na nagsasakay na nga mb brian (yung sasakyan namin pabalik). Nagpanic kmi at nagmadali. Wala ng banlaw banlaw. Drecho palit lang ng damit. In other words, amoy dagat pa kmi. Takbo talaga kmi. At sobrang kaasar dahil hindi pa pala yun. May 3 pang dumating na vesel bago yung amin. Kaasar d ba.

Nung dumating na yung vessel namin, naisip namin magpahuli, kasi nung papunta kmi, nauna kmi kaya sa hulihang part kmi ng bangka napaupo, e ramdam na ramdam mo yung dagat pag ganun e. kaya this time, nagpahuli kmi. At ang ganda! Ibang klase pala itong bangkang ito, dahil huli kmi, dun kmi sa ilalim na compartment napaupo. Halos maiyak kmi dahil sa takot. As in kalevel mo na ata yung dagat. At pag lumubog iyon, kmi ang unang una. Maalon pa nun at mejo umuulan. Ginawa na lang naming katuwa tuwa ang moment na yun. Nagtawanan kmi at ang ingay tlga namin.

Pagdating sa pier, nksakay kmi ng bus, pero sa dulo na. Hay. Tlgang pasaway. Dinaan na lang namin sa tulog ang mahabang byahe pabalik ng Manila.

Pagdating sa Manila, around 1030pm na yun, parang ayaw pa naming maghiwalay. Sobrang bonding talaga kc. Kahit sandali ay nakalimot kmi sa mga trabaho at problema namin.

Next year, planado na ang pagbabalik namin sa puerto galera. Mas madami na dapat kmi, para mas masaya... _______________________________________